Can't You Take A Hint?

When the weekend comes, the weekend comes. It is a time to let loose and have fun. Meet some new people, party with strangers, wake up in the parking lot of a public library. (NEVER happened to me.) In general, just have a good time.

Dancing is one of my most favourite ways to have fun. If anyone has ever come out with me to the clubs, they'd know that I'm a speakerbox girl. I A-Clown it up all the way, I just like to dance and be seen. You know though, I hate dancing with other people. It gets boring and hot and just icky. Guys think they have permission to just put their hands wherever they feel like putting them. Whoever thought grinding was a dance move was painfully mistaken. It's not sexy, it's not good feeling, it's not anything...... EXCEPT a pain in the ass. Just get your groove on by yourself. However, I won't automatically turn down a guy that wants a dance out of me. It's all in good fun. Once the song is done or they start getting grabby hands or whatever, I politely thank them for the dance. I might be an A-Clown but there's a certain ettiquette that comes with it. Not all of us are classless.

Then there are sometimes where guys just won't take no for an answer. I don't know if it's the alcohol that's gotten to their heads or they think they're being a hero infront of their buddies but when a girl says she's had enough, she means she's had enough. We shouldn't have to spell it out but if that's what it takes then we'll do it. Which is why I'm SO thankful I went shopping recently. I bought something that would help me say those special words.

Now I don't have to say anything! Just point to the shirt and walk away. Beautiful.